Relationships....Reflections of ourselves....
I just love the amazing insights that can be obtained in the exploration of consciousness via our relationships.
What exactly are relationships about? They are purely mirrors for ourselves to view ourselves. At the fundamental level they reflect back to us, US. We all have within ourselves the capability of being the dark and light of every personality trait that ever existed when given the right conditions.... What we love and admire in others is what we like in ourselves and what we strive to attain...
What we negatively judge in others or dislike in others is what we do not like and do not acknowledge in ourselves....
Chuckles so go on take notice at that person whom really gets on your wick.... What is he/she doing that you find so awful. Then just have a quick check up within you and your behaviour patternings....and you will notice that this person is actually displaying behaviour that you also display or dont acknowledge or even suppress....
This of course does not mean to say that we should work with or allow the dark side of our natures any power to show itself in life. No of course not, but to acknowledge our dark side within and loving it, actually reintegrates it back into the whole that is us, then this reintigration serves to release us totally from its power...
Also have you ever noticed that the Universe gives you the same challenges again and again...Why does this happen.... Well it is because part of you is being suppressed... And as this suppressed part is an unconscious thought, the law of attraction will bring it back into life and it will
continually show itself only to be acknowledged. So facing the challenge, loving it and healing it is the way to integrate that part of you that you are not acknowledging back into self, back into the whole...