On Becoming Conscious
© Copyright material Melanie Moore. Ph.D.
It is important when developing in spirit to become fully conscious of our minds activities and the programmings we have 
installed on our personal pcs, which produce the way we behave. Thoughts and emotions which do not empower self and others to be the best, loving, abundant and free are all mind made illusions or disempowering lies. The unconditional love of self and others is the only truth, so taking the
responsibility for healing within self all that is not love is the ideal which all us incarnated Gods and Goddesses should be aiming for.
The energy that we dish out to others will always return to us from another direction. Why? Because it has to as it is attracted back towards us through our thought patternings like a magnet attracts. So taking responsibility for what we create in our own lives, then disciplining and reconditioning our minds and emotions to unconditional love through meditation, saying positive affirmations, energy healing and conscious living are all paramount when developing in spirit.
There unfortunately are no easy routes or shortcuts around.
But But But But But.... Do I hear you say " I have been working hard to stay in a state of unconditional love for a years now and my life still hasnt turned around.. I still get negativity chucked my way."
Well often we have years of karma to work through. Older souls have many many life times worth of karma so it is not going to happen quickly and will take time. 
Also as part of our spiritual growth we do all have to move ourselves beyond any victim mentality. So when we have negativity thrown at us or life is not going the way we would like, or we feel sorry for ourselves, Try making it your life's challenge not to take it personally but to heal within the part that percieves it negatively. As in truth there is no negativity, just a perception of it.
There is always a positive reason for every experience and you have in actuality chosen to experience it. NOT YOU as in the personality you but you as in the soul you. The experience is making you stronger through adversity and highlighting a part within which isn't healed and whole.
......And remember ultimately even the dark always serves the light